
My Signature Upside-down Hug
What begins as a playful moment can become a lifelong connection. My Upside-Down Hug started when my grandkids were toddlers — and they still talk about it today. Create your own ritual. The impact lasts forever. 🌿✨
I’m a Great-Great Grandpa, author of 4 books, and speaker dedicated to helping grandparents build meaningful connections across generations. With 80+ years of lived experience and nearly 500 published articles, I share practical strategies that strengthen family bonds and create lasting legacies.
Practical strategies to strengthen bonds with grandchildren, navigate family challenges, and build a legacy that lasts. Explore actionable tips, real-world stories, and proven methods from decades of experience.
Practical strategies to strengthen bonds with grandchildren, navigate family challenges, and build a legacy that lasts. Explore actionable tips, real-world stories, and proven methods from decades of experience.

Dive into four comprehensive books covering grandparenting rights, connection strategies, legacy-building, and navigating family loss. Each book offers depth, compassion, and actionable insights.
Featured by Jack Canfield (Author of The Success Principles and Chicken Soup for the Soul)
2 Million+ Views on viral interview discussing grandparenting and legacy
4 Published Books on grandparenting, family connection, and intergenerational relationships
Nearly 500 Articles published on grandparenting strategies and family dynamics
Speaker & Consultant for organizations, conferences, and family advocacy groups
As a Great-Great Grandpa, I’ve lived through four generations of family dynamics. My insights aren’t theoretical—they’re tested in the real world, refined through decades of connection, conflict, and growth.
From my signature upside-down hug to digital communication tips for long-distance grandparents, every method I teach has been proven across my own family and thousands of readers worldwide.
I don’t just teach grandparenting—I’m shaping the conversation. My books, articles, and speaking engagements position grandparents as vital contributors to family health and intergenerational success.
Whether you’re navigating estrangement, divorce, blended families, or simply seeking deeper connection, I approach every topic with empathy, nuance, and respect for the complexity of family life.
Common Questions
What makes Neil’s approach different from other grandparenting experts?
I’m not a psychologist or family therapist—I’m a Great-Great Grandpa who’s lived it. My advice comes from 80+ years of real-world family experience, not academic theory. I’ve made mistakes, learned from them, and refined strategies across four generations.
Can Neil speak at my organization or event?
Yes! I offer keynote speeches, workshops, and consulting on topics including modern grandparenting, intergenerational leadership, legacy-building, and family values. Contact me here to discuss availability. Contact me.
Where can I buy Neil’s books?
All four books—Caring Grandparents, Good to Great Grandparenting, Grandparents’ Rights, and No Greater Loss—are available on Amazon and through my website. Explore the books here.
Does Neil offer one-on-one consulting for families?
Yes, I work with families navigating complex grandparent-grandchild dynamics, estrangement, custody issues, and legacy planning. Reach out to discuss your needs.
How can I stay updated on Neil’s latest content?
Follow my blog for weekly grandparenting tips, strategies, and stories. I also share updates on speaking engagements and new resources. Read the blogs here.
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Whether you're a grandparent seeking practical strategies, an organization looking for a speaker, or a reader eager to dive deeper into intergenerational wisdom, you're in the right place.
The Origin
Neil details the story behind CaringGrandparents.com. What began with a handful of articles and two books he authored eventually blossomed into a full website dedicated to helping grandparents everywhere.
Featured Blogs

What begins as a playful moment can become a lifelong connection. My Upside-Down Hug started when my grandkids were toddlers — and they still talk about it today. Create your own ritual. The impact lasts forever. 🌿✨

Your legacy as a grandparent isn’t created in grand moments—it’s built in the everyday love, wisdom, and presence you share. Every story you tell, every value you model, and every memory you create becomes part of the inheritance your grandchildren carry into the future.